A Study in Indirectly Hostile Self-Justification

The football book is strangely tedious, yet strangely captivating. Its title is confusing. The Dear England title currently belongs to a hit play, an future TV show, and a public letter written by the manager in 2021.

This version of Dear England is not formally related to any of those. It represents an oddity in the expanding Dear England universe, a volume about guidance: a classically uninspiring elite football manager subject that the author adheres to persistently, using the words “leadership”, “guiding” or “leadership” a minimum of 500 times across the book’s entirety.

Themes Raised

“Who are the leaders? What do leaders do? And what do leaders know?” he asks at the outset, establishing his position, but declining to explore “Why are leaders?”, topics likely reserved for a follow-up publication.

Additionally, this publication has a book-shaped hole at its core. It’s an exercise in subtly confrontational self-defense, in almost-but-not-quite saying the actual thing, skipping skillfully from lingering grievance to unscabbed wound across a assortment of graphs, business clichés and discussions about Thomas Cromwell.

Immersion

Engaging with the text is like overhearing your loved ones having a mannered but profoundly personal argument in the next room while you’re attempting to pay attention on a business seminar titled “Countless Explanations for My Eventual Success”. But it is also challenging to stop reading, as Southgate keeps drifting near to an issue you genuinely want to learn about, before suddenly changing tack.

Disclosures

Readers will find typically controversial revelations in books in this genre, such is the peeled-eyeball fascination with leading the national team. The best ones are: Southgate resolved he was absolutely going to quit as England manager after spectators tossed containers at him at the Euros; he came very close to withdrawing from the game at half-time against the Bulgarian team in 2019 after his squad members were subjected to racism; he introduced the concept of specialist dead-ball trainers and everyone in the English football is now copying him; he has now misplaced his enthusiasm for soccer, a shocking revelation casually mentioned in a single paragraph at the conclusion.

Leading England through a time of rage, hope, upheaval and confinement was a grueling journey. The bruises are evidently still unhealed.

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Otherwise, the text is overrun with an AI-style verbal clutter of standard guidance discourse. Copies of this publication were distributed with reviewers under confidentiality clauses before launch, probably out of concern someone might reveal that “challenging discussions can, by their nature, be difficult”, that you should always look before you leap, that leadership takes place where evolution combines with understanding.

Genuine Feeling

Readers will find however real sentiment present. Managing England through a time of rage, aspiration, turmoil and pandemic restrictions was a brutal ordeal. The wounds are evidently still raw, though presented in a jargon-laden reimagining of the standard football manager theme: demonstrating my accuracy about everything from the start.

Specific Examples

Even publication’s introductory section, disguised as thrilling accounts of the final of the European Championship, is all about how effective Southgate actually was at tactical substitutions (the big Southgate gripe centering on he was not effective at altering the lineup). Subsequently, he goes into significant detail about how he managed the deciding game of 2021 flawlessly – particularly the unsuccessful penalty shootout – because he adhered to a set protocol, which must mean that introducing inexperienced squad members in the closing stages to take the crucial shot of their careers was logical and correct.

That approach was confirmed by a victorious penalty decider against Switzerland four years later after a fixture where England spent the full duration looking as if they were attempting to don a sweater the inside out. “The control we exerted in that tiebreaker was truly exciting,” the author notes, while comparing the showing to US Navy Seals eliminating a notorious figure. Goodness.

Avoided Revelations

When we approach to a revelation, the manager backs away from identifying individuals or providing the juice. We hear there were problematic England individuals who demanded more consideration, possibly because they were indulged at the start of their time in football. But as you lean forward expectantly, Southgate is quickly veering off into an area named a specific management theory, which asserts that instead of a grouping of characteristics or principles, team environment is in fact something that is formed by, unfortunately, please, we’ve heard enough.

Notable Sections

Within the better bits are when he explores about the incremental process of building resilience in youth, or how he attempted to define Englishness more lucidly and more constructively than anyone else in the public eye. Most impressively, there is a genuinely gripping narrative of that harrowing evening in Sofia where England’s players of color were subjected to vile treatment (and afterwards supported robustly by their manager).

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Deborah Rogers
Deborah Rogers

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